By "spending time" do you mean travel and stay with them??? Boy, you sure are a trooper aren't you Margaret. I enjoyed my visit as well. Sorry we had to rush, but it's better to be on time than have to put up with the consequences!!! Ben, I'm coming to see you soon, but not to spend the night. I wouldn't put anyone through any overnight with Emma. She STILL gets up in the night! Any suggestions, ANYONE???!?!!???!? Later!